Recently, a friend and I were talking about the phrase “going to the dogs.” Humans’ relationship with dogs have changed in the last few centuries, and how we think of dogs as great companions. How can something “going to the dogs” still be a bad thing?
And if anyone can teach us about how to deal with the bad things, it’s dogs. Example: Olly the Terrier.
Olly didn’t have a great showing at the recent Crufts dog show–major fail right away, face plant right into the ground.
But Olly didn’t care.
He was “all over the place” after that and ran the wrong way through one of the challenges, but, as the announcer said, he was “having a ball.”
Olly knows a thing or two about how to handle failure.
Sometimes things don’t go as planned. Sometimes we don’t have the show we wanted. But that doesn’t mean getting upset or mad at ourselves or quitting. Instead, maybe that means we should find the joy in what we’re doing and go after that. Maybe we’re not going to win the dog show this year, but we’re going to have some fun while we’re there.
Failure is hard. Disappointment is hard. But no one can take that Olly-ish joy away from you when you’re doing something you love.
From now on, if something’s “going to the dogs,” respond like Olly the dog. Find your enthusiasm, find your confidence, and keep at it.